Monday, June 20, 2011

RES-PECT

this blog post was a inspiration from a bus ride back home in a mini bus
there are many different job post as we all know. there are those that require skills and there are those that requires the littlest or least effort. being a cleaner is having a job, being a mini bus driving is having a job, being a rubbish collector is having a job, all these are same as having jobs like being a nanny, a retail assistant, an executive chef, a manager in a big company. nevertheless being a boss or the CEO of the company also falls under the category of W-O-R-K-I-N-G. without a job that is proper of course means no income and no income means no food no cloths no place to stay no nothing and as for those wealthier/ rich people no money means no luxury, 'no life', no popularity, no fame,no nothing basically.
right, with that all said the point that i wanna state is that no matter the job level, or post one person holds, their main purpose is to find money to support themselves, their family members, to make life easier to pass day by day. and so each and every one of us should respect, care,be courteous, be sincere to anyone in this matter. example???easiest example is in retails line~
situation:in a shoe shop~lady wants to ask for size~
okay~fine~BUT she has to ask for her shoe size to try on while the sales girls is busy attending to other customers.it is like WHAT!!!CAN'T YOU NOT WAIT JUST FOR ONE MOMENT...I SAW YOU WAVE YOUR HANDS SO HIGH WHILE SITTING YOUR BUTT DOWN ON THE CHAIR WHILE SCREAMING 'HALOOOOO,I WANT SIZE PLEASE!!!"
it is like please please please, service people aren't your servants, they are there to help and assist you.people. and how do customers that do not think treat the sales assistant???
RUDELY~especially those younger ones, they tend to ignore your presence as a human being with feelings and that also can fell fatigue, tiredness, fed up but can't quit what they are doing, unhappy at times, hate being pushed too hard, being 'used'...
today in the bus it was really hot and especially in a mini bus, the sun was blazing hot shinning right into the bus while the hot heat stays in the bus as it did not have proper ventilation. as i sat across the bus driver i could feel how tired,thirsty, burning everything is~
the ;driver; finished his coke in less than 5 minutes, had to wear a cap while driving, had long sleeve shirts on that weren''t all that clean, and still had to fight through the horrible terrible traffic to send people and get them to where they want to go~
ever thought of 'where would THEY wanna go at this time???
all jobs are different in terms of skills, workload, position,fame but all employees should ceserve respect from one another as well as people outside...

A SMILE FROM THE HEART WILL HOPEFULLY CHEER PEOPLE UP
dont forget to say your thank you's
be sincere and polite no matter who you are talking to
~RESPECT~

to me ah gong
thank you for the few hours spent together
thank you for having me in your plan today
ILYand IMY
XOXO
all the best in your job
<3
me

Friday, June 10, 2011

~if you could just understand~

yesterday wasn't a very good mood day~
after work i got into the car and then i started complaining about hoe rude how disrespectful and how inconsiderate the customers and also the company can be~
i was complaining and complaining and when we were about to reach home she said to me something that hurts me until this very second and i really have no idea how to forget the exact sentence as it repeats itself over and over again in my brains...
*sigh*
i just wished that you did not mean it
i just wishes that you will support me in whatever
i just wished that you listen more ask more
i just wish that your words wont seem as harsh anymore
i just wished that we did not have that conversation
i just wish that you are able to feel how i feel
i just wished that i can talk to you about anything
i just wished you could understand more and trust me

all these thoughts in my mind...i cannot write it down because words simply cant do justice to how i am feeling inside...i sacrifice lots as well
i do my best as well to keep you happy
i try very hard not to compare with others my age or my friends
i do whatever that pleases you the most
it really hurt when those words came out and i do not know how to express myself anymore~
i'd really wished that didn;t happen and you do not think that way~
i only wanted you to give me a little support from all the work, all the standing for hours...

lastly ----- is the main purpose for me to work...
and i need them
you say that i do not do my part and think on your side how tough life is
TRUST me...i know and i kinda very much get it already
2500 for half a year???who will survive???

~I'D JUST WISHED YOU UNDERSTAND~

to my baby ah gong,
thank you for making me laugh again
thank you for making me not think too much
my attitude towards stuff has really changed and i really appreciate every single thing
-ILY-
as always...lot of love from me to you~
-x0x0-